A woman who suffers from a low sex drive has revealed that she lets her husband, John, 40, have sex with other women – while she refuses to sleep with any men outside her marriage.
Monica Huldt, 37, from Sweden, now living in the US state of Arizona, believes the unusual set-up not only makes the couple’s relationship stronger but says it’s also a turn-on and improves their own sex life.
“I always knew my husband was interested in having a threesome but we’d never really sat down and spoken about doing it seriously,” Monica, who also believes more women should adopt a domestic “traditional wife” role at home, said.
“In Sweden, people don’t really do stuff like that or even talk about it.
“On top of that I was raised a Catholic so sex was super taboo at home, I wasn‘t even allowed to date boys growing up.
“I trust my husband 100 per cent and I think including others into our marriage has made our sex life so awesome and overall made our marriage so much stronger.”
Monica, who earns around $200,000 a month on OnlyFans, first began struggling with a low libido while working as a stripper in 2015.
“Prior to working online I did daily shifts as a dancer in a strip club and that made me really uninterested in sex,” she said.
“I was around men during my whole working week being stared at and having to constantly be nice, it made me feel quite miserable afterwards.
“It really put a dampener on my mood and when I got home I didn’t want to have sex or even be touched by my husband.”
Monica said this was “obviously not good for our sex life or the relationship” and their marriage suffered.
“We did go through some really rough patches because of my lack of sex drive and intimacy,” she said
“It was really tough.”
The couple struggled as Monica felt “depressed and down” due to her work, with the pair barely having sex once a month.
The model credits launching an OnlyFans account with boosting her sex drive, though she still struggles – which is why she allows John to stray from their marriage.
Feeling apprehensive, the couple opened up their relationship slowly, starting by having a threesome together.
“I knew John had always wanted a threesome but I had always been worried about him catching feelings for someone else,” Ms Huldt said.
“He had never given me cause to question his faithfulness but I was always paranoid, overprotective and jealous.”
But despite worrying it could put a strain in our relationship like her jealous feelings had in the past, she enjoyed it.
“I was a little apprehensive but we decided to try the threesome. I really enjoyed it and found it a huge turn-on but I had to ease myself in,” Monica said.
“The first time had been just for fun but the second time we filmed it for my OnlyFans account.
“I was surprised at how comfortable I felt with it and I loved seeing my husband with other girls – something I never thought would happen.”
With the experiments a success, Monica suggested John set up his own OnlyFans page and told him he could have sex with whoever he wants.
“I figured, we are already shooting with others, why not have two pages and he can shoot with the girls on his own?” she said.
“It’s fun for him as well as lucrative. He gets to have fun and that makes me happy and I help him film as well.”
Monica said her husband was “awesome” when it came to shooting with other women and made her feel “super comfortable” about it.
“We‘re all like one big happy family,” she said.
“It’s really helped our marriage a lot and I have a whole different view on sexuality.“
At the moment John only has sex with other women for his OnlyFans page, an arrangement Monica is happy to continue.
“Sometimes we will have a threesome just for fun but it’s mainly for the page,” she said.
“He wouldn‘t go on dates with them, he’s not interested in that side of things, it’s just physical.
“Most of the time we will be at our house but we‘ll also often go to a hotel or an Airbnb.”
Monica said she and John are friends with most of the women he sleeps with so she will “never feel threatened”.
“He does text and talk to them, but nothing about that is a secret. I’m always informed about everything,” she said.
“We sometimes go out for dinner all of us but he never goes on dates with them alone.”
“Doing OnlyFans with Monica has been really awesome,” John added.
“It all sort of happened by chance and then escalated into a bigger thing but it‘s definitely brought us closer.
“It’s a lot of work but has also afforded us a life we wouldn’t have had otherwise.”
Monica, who recently shocked women across the globe with her controversial views that the secret to a happy love life is for women to be subservient to their men, says she won‘t touch anyone but her partner.
The model, who has 273,000 followers on Instagram will however have sex with other women – both with and without her husband.
“I am a one-man-kind-of-woman,” she said.
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“If I am with a person, I am only with that person – I have to have a personal connection with men I‘m having sex with.
“Although I have sex with girls, I like the thought of John being the only man in my life, it makes it feel more special to me.
“I don‘t mind sharing my husband though. I find it sexy.“
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